REM Sleep as Emotional Detox
During REM sleep, the brain replays emotionally charged memories — but in an environment completely free of noradrenaline (the stress chemical). This is the only time in 24 hours when noradrenaline drops to zero. The memory is preserved, but the emotional pain gradually disconnects from it.
Walker calls this "overnight therapy" — the brain's built-in mechanism for emotional healing. Over successive nights, a painful memory loses its sting. You remember what happened, but it no longer hurts the same way.